Ephesians 5:21-33: Seeing More Clearly Family Roles

Sermon Notes:

1. Ephesus was the goddess capital of the Roman world.
2. The Cult of Diana was built upon the idea of pushing down men and elevating women at the expense of the man.
3. Men and women are of equal value and worth as Children of God.
4. Men are called to spiritually lead in their families.
5. God calls wives to let their husbands lead.
6. Only in submission to Christ can Ephesians 5 work.

Follow-up Questions from Sunday’s Message:

Getting to Know You:

Who were/are you closer to, your mother or father?

Quick Review:
Looking back on last Sunday’s message and your notes, what was the most meaningful part for you?

Digging Deeper:

1. As a group, read Ephesians 5:21-33. How would you summarize what these verses are saying?
2. Men: How do you feel about the standard for husbands in vs 25-28?
3. Women: How do you feel about the standard for wives in vs 22-23?
4. In practical terms, what does it mean for a wife to submit to her husband?
5. What implication does “husbands, love your wives, just as Christ love the Church” have?
6. What do you think a husband or wife should do if their spouse doesn’t follow the Biblical role defined in Scripture?
7. In your own words, how would you explain the main goal of a Christian marriage?
8. Who do you look up to as good role models for marriage and why?

Taking it Home:

Memorize Ephesians 5:21

Prayer request:

Pray for your group this week that husbands and wives would grow in love and commitment with Jesus and each other.